Hello there! It is so SO good to have you here! The month of Ramadan is coming to an end with Eid-al-Fitr right around the corner, along with the Memorial Day weekend. That’s right! This year we are celebrating Eid, and Memorial Day, on the same weekend. This got me thinking about a previous post from a couple of years back when the same thing happened. It's hard to reflect back on those times, especially with everything that's happening around us today with the Covid-19 pandemic. Still, this is a time of celebration with families and friends, even given the current quarantine situation. It may seem depressing when you think about the fact that we won’t be able to do some of the things that made those previous holidays enjoyable, like meeting families, having cookouts and feasting together, so I think it’s important to find ways to celebrate. This is the reason why I want to share my list of the 12 ways of celebrating this eid. Hopefully you too will find these tips helpful.
Bake Cookies - Cookies are easy to bake and fun (and trouble for the sweet tooth). They can be so festive during every occasion. I wanted to include my Eid cookies in the Eid bags to drop of to family, but my first batch wasn't looking so great! Try again?
Cook a Special Meal - Is there any holiday that doesn't involve (elaborate) cooking? Cook up a storm for the family at home and enjoy the special meal together. You can even drop off a dish for your other families.
Dress up - Eid is a major excuse to dress up and look our best in our ethnic attire #representculture
Group Zoom Call - Get on a zoom call with your families to celebrate Eid together-from-afar, show off your Eid outfit, your baked cookies, or take screen shots and selfies, or anything to enjoy the time on the call. I'm looking forward to my zoom call scheduled with families around the globe!
Draw Eid Cards - I made a few DIY greetings cards last year, but my lack of confidence in them got the best of me. So, I never sent them out! This year I've decided to share a few even if they aren't "perfect" - it's the thought that counts, right? Sit as a family, on your own, or with your kids to enjoy a craft session to create cards or any Eid craft project.
Drive by to wave at families/Friends - Dress up in the morning and go for a drive to wave at your relatives and friends. Make it even more exciting by capturing it all on video if you'd like and sharing with those afar. Every year we take turns driving around to and visiting each others houses throughout the day. I have a lot of families who live nearby. With this year being an exception, we thought of driving by to see (from a distance) few of our relatives who live close to us.
Mail out holiday cards - If you planned early enough, good for you! Since we can't celebrate with all our families, as we are used to doing in a yearly basis, my husband thought of sending out Eid Holiday cards or Eid greeting cards. So, at the last minute, we've decided to print out cards and drop those off during our drive as a family - all dressed up!
Deliver Goodies - Drop off gift bags or goodies for your family members, close friends, and/or neighbors. Something as simple as the cookies you've baked. We usually host an Eid gift exchange party with a massive feast for our families (60 people and counting). This year that obviously can't happen in large numbers.
Give Eidi In A Balloon - Okay, you can give Eidi any way you want if you are even doing Eidi for children. It doesn't have to be all extra with balloon. But I'm usually "extra." Kids love Eidi (which kid is not excited about it on Eid day?) or at least I did growing up. It wasn't about the amount, but more about the fun of collecting something from relatives through out the day. It was fun!
Apply Henna - I'm not someone who applies henna often, but I have friends and families who follow this tradition every year for Eid. If you enjoy getting your henna done professionally at an Eid "mela" (fair) every year, why skip it this year? I'm talking about the henna part, of course, not the Mela part. It doesn't have to be perfect to make a difference. You can order/pick-up organic henna from local professionals, and create a small piece of artwork yourself right on the palm of your hand.
Decorate Your home: Just as any other holiday, Ramadan can be a great time to decorate the house. If you haven't decorated for Ramadan, you can still throw something together quickly for Eid, and especially in quarantine, it doesn't have to be elaborate. Maybe a corner of the living room, a mantel, the dinning area, front porch, or the garage. Or, simply put up some lights and a DIY wreath for the doorway. Anything that suits you. With a toddler at hand full-time, I didn't do much to decorate for the holiday this time. I just focused on the credenza in our dining area.
What Gives You Joy: Each person has his or her own unique way of celebrating the holidays. And since Memorial Day is coinciding with Eid, celebrate it in whatever way brings you joy. We are planning on BBQ-ing at some point by keeping with the tradition of Memorial Day weekend. You can do chalk paint outside with or without kids.
I'm hoping that these ideas help you get through these trying times. You can go with one or combine a few of these to enjoy with your family and little ones. While we celebrate the end of the holy month and remember those who have fallen for our freedom on this Memorial Day weekend, we must also honor and not forget those who are making sacrifices for us, even as we speak, to get us all through this challenging period in humanity. Wishing you and your family lot of love and health.
ASOS Maternity Dresses
With a pregnant belly, it’s pretty difficult to figure out what to wear on a daily basis. If you’re pregnant or have been pregnant before, you know what Imm talking about. With the weather being so cold right now, I simply opt for sweatpants or maternity pants, paired with a top and jacket to keep me warm. However, in the rare occasion that I do dress up, I tend to lean towards dresse (always). And, Believe it or not, I actually enjoyed wearing rightly-fitted, maternity dresses or women’s dresses that had the flexibility to cover and flaunt my bump while being super comfortable. If I could, I would wear wrap dresses, maternity maxi dresses, or maternity midi dresses all day, every day with my pair of sneakers or flat sandals. When maternity dresses or any maternity wear in general fit right and makes you feel good and comfortable in the outside, it feels good in the inside.
The first two trimesters I wore regular wrap dresses, by ordering up a size. I didn't care too much about seasonal trends. If I wanted to wear comfortable maxi dress in the cold, I wore it with sweat pants underneath and matched it with sweater and jacket on the top. It kept me warm, cozy, and feeling good.
Now if there is one brand I depended on for cute maternity clothes that embraced my pregnant belly and fit me perfectly each time - it's ASOS. If you know me, you've probably already heard me talk about this brand a lot. Every maternity dress I ordered through them (for my pregnancy related events) were a perfect fit for me. I can wear these dresses post pregnancy as well - extra point for that! I didn't try their pants or tights, so I can't speak for those. But, ASOS dresses are simply awesome.
You are probably wondering if this post is sponsored, so let me make that clear: this post is not sponsored by ASOS and I'm not making any money from this (darn, I should!). I've always been a fan of their products (there crop tops are so cute and versatile!), and now pregnancy clothes got added to that list. My list of favorites from their maternity section is too long. If I could, I would buy them all.
Here are 10 of my favorite maternity dresses by ASOS:
As you have already noticed, my last several posts have been all pregnancy related and pregnancy updates. When you are expecting, so much of your life revolves around the life growing inside - your eating habits, your thought process, and your lifestyle. I found myself always googling all sorts of questions and pregnancy tips and products I was curious about. As we are preparing for our baby to arrive, I wanted to share my experiences for any mom-to-be or momma-to-be who are in a similar phase.
Best Pregnancy Books
It's difficult to figure out what to eat when pregnant and create a pregnancy meal plan for nine months. I mean you know what nutrients you need to focus on and all the healthy pregnancy food out there. However, knowing what to focus on weekly makes life much easier. This book provides a week-by-week guide on what to eat during each stage. Although I didn't try all the recipes, that's also included, I found it tremendously helpful to know what food-of-the-week to focus on for the target development. It just helped narrow down the overall list of food to eat when pregnant. I also loved learning and being aware of how my baby was growing each week and how the food was effecting the growth.
This book is quite insightful and educational. I really enjoyed reading this book and learned some valuable and fascinating information. Dr John Medina is a developmental molecular biologist and a dad, who draws examples from scientific studies and neuroscience research and facts, as opposed to mere opinion.
I have six other pregnancy books here, but I'd be lying if I said I read them all.
Nesting Phase of Pregnancy
My goodness, only four more days till Valentine's day, and we're so ready to meet our baby boy. I doubt I'll ever be fully ready for labor, but he is definitely a little too snugged in there and pushing around to hopefully make his debut soon. During this waiting period, I'll post a few pregnancy related topics while the countdown continues.
The Nursery Decor
I understand soon-to-be parents or soon-to-be mommas tend to get very excited about decorating the baby nursery. The whole decorating part can be fun as the anticipation of baby’s arrival builds up. Even though we live in a two bedroom apartment, and I’m highly tempted to invest my energy on these cute nursery ideas and nursery themes on Pinterest, I’ve decided to not dedicate an entire room to creating one just yet. Although designing and putting together baby's room would be so much fun, it’s not necessary for us right now. Why? Because of two reasons:
Staying positive and hopeful is not always easy during pregnancy, especially when the future is so unpredictable, and there are so many pregnancy horror stories out there (not to mention the hormones!) That's when self-love and supportive networks can help guide us in a more positive direction. Even with all that, it can be difficult to ignore the negativity that surrounds us, and we might not be able to always ignore them. And, that's okay. We are only human. We just have to move on and focus on the next day. Things that helped me stay positive:
The Big Birthday Month
It feels like just the other day that I've announced my pregnancy to my family, and I can’t believe I’m on the last stretch of this pregnancy process. Third Trimester - 38 weeks - full-term and counting! At any moment, we'll be welcoming our special little valentine. I'm so proud of how far we have come.
I don’t mean to sound as if time flew by for me, because the pregnancy process is a piece of cake. I know many women who’ve had hard pregnancies. Pregnancy is tough as it is with the ups-and-downs of hormones, emotions, physical changes, and all sorts of pregnancy symptoms. You are making a human being! Each stage of pregnancy can bring with it it’s own sets of challenges and symptoms - both positive and negative. You’ll have hard days, but I think, for every mother, the experience is unique. No two mother or no two baby are the same, and no pregnancy is easy. It’s the positive outlook that’s important to minimize stress and stay healthy (more on this later).
I enjoyed being pregnant, and I’ve had a healthy pregnancy so far and a very supportive group of friends and family who made this whole process so special and sometimes emotional, driving me to positive thinking and a happy state of mind. I felt so blessed. I’ve been counting my blessings for every good news I received whenever I went for my monthly doctor's visits. Now in the third trimester with 38 weeks already passed, they have turned into weekly visits. However, no matter how healthy you are, how fit you are, or how strong you are, you’ll find yourself wondering if your baby is doing okay, if you are eating right or doing the right things, or if everything is going well in there. That’s totally normal! You’re pretty much blindfolded until those ultrasounds and tests come through. Even then, things can always take a turn. Not everything can be foreseen even with the most technologically advanced tools in hand, but that's out of your control.
At the end of this beautiful journey of 38 weeks, I’m so grateful and as ready as I can be to meet my bundle of bliss. I’ve been nesting hard core, and it feels that no matter how much I get done and how many amazon packages I open, there is more to do and a wish for one more day to tidy up just a tad bit more. The realization that our baby might be here any day now has started to not only look real but feel real. With the bassinet in the room, the car seat setup, and all baby clothes washed and ready, we only have baby left to arrive and make it all into a home of three.
Thank you for your blessings and your well wishes as we count down to begin this new chapter of our lives.
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Are we have a Boy or a Girl?
2018 will be a year to remember and cherish. It’s the year I’ve been blessed with my first pregnancy. I think from the moment we found out we are expecting, which was in June (my birthday month and our anniversary month), the thought of what might be the gender of our baby started to stir our minds and hearts. We decided we wanted to find out the gender after we have successfully completed our first trimester and embarked on the second phase of pregnancy. The waiting and anticipation was killing me, but this pregnancy process has been absolutely surreal and precious. After five months of patiently waiting, we decided to host a small gathering to share the special moment of reveal with few of our family and friends. My husband really wanted to host an at-home dinner with a few family members, but I got carried away.
My Guilty Pleasure
With Spring behind us and the first week of summer here, I figured I'll share a summer drink recipe for you. While Cherry blossoms and May showers are signs of Spring in Washington, DC, my family knows the season is here when the mangoes arrive in their fruitiest of aroma. As the weather warms up, mangoes begin filling the homes of all my relatives. Although this King-of-Fruits can be found year-round, their true taste peaks in the Spring season as they start to really ripen up as summer weather nears. Mango becomes the perfect ingredient to add to your tropical smoothie recipes, summer drinks, and fruit salads. Nothing is more refreshing than a glass of chilled mango lassi. Okay, there are other refreshing drinks out there too, but this mango lassi is way up there! And my mom's authentic mango lassi recipe is not only the best... it's oh. so. gratifying! If you're thinking of summer wedding ideas or drink ideas for South Asian weddings, this fresh fruit beverage can surely add personality and bring a seasonal flare to your wedding drink menu.
How to Stay Motivated and In Love
Hello, my people! It seems forever that I’ve been out of social media. Let me explain. I’ve been on a short-term sabbatical and paused on social media as I sought out to achieve “perfection” and a well curated visual appeal. You know, what I do comes from a place of love and appreciation. It’s truly a labor of love. When it turns to just labor, I like to take some time out to hit that reset button and really focus. And, then refocus: ensuring it’s all about the love. And it keeps bringing me back to you. Thank you so much for your messages (I love them!) and for getting in touch with me. I promise to you… I’m here, and I am okay. I hope you are too.
Spring Showers Bring Mother's Day Flowers
Mother’s day is here, my people. I have a list of the best mother's day gift ideas for you to enjoy the weekend with the important ladies in your life. In fact, there are some outdoor activities that can be enjoyed throughout spring and all the way to the end of summer season. Now tell me: do you spend weeks searching for the best mother’s day gift ideas or are you a procrastinator, who also loves mom dearly? I usually start thinking a month in advance but still find myself struggling at the last minute to choose from one of many gift options out there. At whichever point of planning mode you might be in for this mother's day, I'm sure this list will get your creative juices flowing. Blogging for me comes from a very personal space, and I tend to often draw inspiration from my own life. This list of mother's day gift ideas is no exception and was shaped by my personal experiences with my own mother. We have not indulged in all that's included here. It was built from similar experiences we have had or I would have liked to have had as a mother and/or daughter.